Why is it so difficult for women to have a successful relationship? I recently had a conversation with one of my friends and she told me that she simply couldn't find it possible to have a good relationship. I didn't think it was a big deal, but then I remembered that we women are manipulated into thinking that men should be dominant in starting a relationship. In response to your problem, I thought I'd give some advice that will help all women make their way to successful relationships, with just three simple steps. Starting with step one, write down your list of relationships. Within this list, include the qualities you believe your perfect soulmate will have. You must first know what you are looking for before getting involved. If you like athletic, muscular and arrogant guys, then you are looking for the manly type. If manly isn't right for you because you're a sensitive person who would rather seek out a romantic sweet, then add how sweet you want it to be and why. The most important thing in adding these qualities is to make sure you find someone you are compatible with, because most of the time when you try to get into a relationship it will be with one of your closest friends and you want to make yours it is best to make sure it is the right friend, so things won't be awkward between your friendship and relationship. In addition to including the characteristics of your perfect man, you also want to think about how you want your relationship to go, along with some reasons why you think it might end. This part of the list may seem a little childish and can even be a little jokey if you think about it the right way. How do you know that your…half of paper…touch comes first. When you're around your partner you show off a little. Blink your eyes and even wink if it helps. The goal is to get him to notice you, and batting your eyes with a flirty walk will not only get you noticed, but show him that you're interested. The first step is put into your schedule when you have been asked out on your first date and have your first romantic conversation. Remember when you made that list about yourself and the relationship, well, what I mean take it out and use it as a conversation starter. Finally, step two: use your friend's secret weapon. Let your friend and partner become friends this way, they can connect and she can use her powerful manipulation skills to show him how great you really are together. This can also be helpful if the initial conversation doesn't go as planned.