However, all I know and care about is my hero, my best friend, who has been through all the hard times and good times with me. Yes, sometimes we argue, but that's normal. There is no such thing as a perfect friendship or relationship where you agree on everything together. We have different political views, different ideas about what a feminist should be, different religious views, and different coping techniques. But this never limits us in our friendship; we look at each of our differences and see that that makes us unique and who we are, and that we have no place to try to change