There are many attributes to being an effective helper. An effective helper, in essence, should be sincerely caring, have a calm manner, have a sense of humor, be a clear thinker, be highly reliable, honest, use common sense, be objective and not subjective, have self-confidence, be self-aware, have a positive attitude towards life, have respect for others, exhume warmth, show flexibility and openness (Mental Health of Refugees, 1996). These are the key characteristics of an effective helper. Above all, an effective helper must completely respect the people he or she is trying to help, regardless of what their values ​​and beliefs are (Burger, 2011). You must recognize the differences between you and the person you are helping and you must respect these differences (Mental Health of Refugees, 1996). An effective helper should not be the judge of another person's life, but consider it as an invitation or request for help for a person. The helper should empathize with the person they are helping and not assume they know how that person feels. The helper should understand that every person is you...