Why are divorces becoming so common? The U.S. Census Bureau states that half of all marriages end in failure (Medved 737). Most divorces end due to financial problems, insecurity, or sometimes even abuse, but of course there are many other reasons. With this in mind you might be thinking, what really are the true effects of a divorce? Many assets, such as children, cars, and houses, are usually acquired during marriages. During the divorce process this could potentially become a problem for both parties. How this issue is handled can be the deciding factor in whether the divorce has a positive or negative effect on either party. Most people think that marriage is for life. Unfortunately, many realize that the marriage they live in is not what they thought it would be. Divorces happen for many reasons and it is endlessly debatable whether a divorce is good or bad. Therefore, many would say that those who grow up in a family with two intact parents are more likely to be successful in the future. Sometimes, however, a couple simply doesn't get along in the family and this can cause stress not only for them but also for other family members. As Berlin states in his testimony, “marriage can only help children if the marriage is healthy.” When he declares one healthy, he means that they are not fighting or that abuse is not occurring. An unhealthy marriage can cause many problems for a child's well-being and future development. Berlin also states that “marital hostility is associated with increased aggression and destructive behaviors.” As a result, in many cases divorce may be necessary, but the debate is still: what are its true effects? One huge statistic that stands out is that 35 to 40 percent of s...... half of paper... .... Network. March 16, 2014Lachmi writes in his article about the pros and cons of a divorce. She says some people get caught up in marriages and don't even realize they're being abused. A marriage filled with abuse and arguments can be even more stressful for a child than an entire divorce. He tries to keep the topic balanced, but can be seen emphasizing that a strong marriage is always a good thing for both the couple and the children. The website appears credible as Lachmi uses quotes and research from other credible sociologists and high-ranking officials. This article will provide research that will help strengthen and keep the topic of divorce and its effects uniform. It's actually changed my opinion a bit on how I think about the topic because I see that marriage is a vital thing in a child's development and a divorce will most likely impact that.