An Analysis of the To the Lighthouse Topic: Mrs. Ramsey Triumphs Over Mr. Ramsey, Due to Her Awareness and Intuitive Feeling of the Most Important Things in Life: The value of human relationships. Although she is submissive, with no mention of an extensive educational background, she innately possesses the crucial social skills that gain: the cohesion of the family as a whole; the respect and love of his children and the continued survival of his marriage. Part I: The Window "If there had been an ax handy, or a poker, any weapon that would have ripped open his father's chest and killed him, then and there,