I agree with the things every partner can't do without. A woman, for example, cannot do without affection and intimacy. Harley was perfect with affection because it signified her need for safety and security in the relationship. Security is not just a financial issue: it means feeling safe and being cared for in every aspect of the relationship. The challenge for him is to satisfy this desire because sometimes his needs prevail over hers or he doesn't always understand what she means by feeling safe. Every woman wants protection from her partner. A woman is considered the weaker sex, she is different emotionally and mentally when it comes to physical altercations. Harley teaches a man to draw on a woman's affection and intimacy because if his needs aren't met, hers won't be met either. For example, man cannot do without sexual satisfaction and recreational companionship. Harley shared that a marriage is conditional and if it works, women need to understand why sex is the driving force for the man. Harley stated in his book that there are three important differences between men and women when it comes to sex: sexual drive, awareness of sexuality, and reason for sex (Harley, 51). I found this very interesting because Harley was very explicit in the details, so that both parties could understand when it came to each other's needs. The book set